my mom and i had a quiet dinner because my dad, brother and sister here in korea had other plans. i thought to myself, christmas in korea isn’t so different. in boston, i expect to spend it alone but end up spending it with lots of friedns. here in korea, i expect to spend christmas eve with family but end up spending it practically alone, at least christmas eve dinner.
after dinner, my mom and i went to coex to look for some books. when we got there we saw a huge crowd of people trying to get down to the subway station! they weren’t in line to get on thet train or to get through the gates. they were simply trying to get into the station! wow. as we were walking towards the bookstore, i noticed that people, practically everyone, were wearing red, just kidding, they were all wearing black. i guess wearing black happens in any city? anyway my mom and i bought a book. grabbed some coffee at starbucks (yes starbucks is everywhere!). then we tried to get out of coex mall and we did successfully. but we went out the wrong exit so we had to walk for more than 30 minutes to get to where we wanted to be!
so no, i wasn’t able to check out redmango tonight to be able to compare it to pinkberry, or yoberry or berryline (both in boston area). sorry folks. the review of redmango is going to have to come after christmas. i did send a fax to their main office to complain about how much trouble i had on their internet site.
as expected, our entire family (those who are in korea) went to church today. there was a music part – complete with little kids singing, which i unfortunately missed – and then a short service and then a performance by the choir. the choir was great. the solos in one part almost moved me. 🙂 it was weird, however, how we were practically the only ones standing up during the handel’s messiah – hallelujah part. later, more people stood up. i guess i just feel like you can’t listen to it without standing up, not because of tradition (ok maybe a little bit due to tradition) but out of reverence for the creator.
the title of the sermon was immanuel. and the pastor preached that we are not alone, god is with us. he said, don’t go through life as if you are alone because god is with you. and when god is with you, all things are possible. believe in the power of god. believe in miracles. have hope because god is with us. god is with you.
what i haven’t said in my last blog was that my dad is the pastor of the church we go to. so of course i felt like he was tailoring the sermon just to me. i mean, sometimes i feel like a pastor is talking directly at me during a sermon, but i know that can’t be the case because they don’t know what i’m going through. but this pastor, my dad, he knows what i’m going through. so who knows? maybe he did in part speak to me, directly to me. i liked what my dad said – that we are not alone and that god is with us. more than liking it, i want to believe it. i want to believe it because i think it’s true. here i think it’s appropriate to mention william james’ will to believe essay and his phrase “leap of faith.”
i want to believe that god is with us and i think it’s true. but i don’t know if i have the religious experience that warrants me to say i know that god is with us. i know it in my head that god is with us. whether a personal god or an impersonal god, god who created us and everything else, god is with us. i’m sure of that. so why can’t i believe it in the depths of my soul???
it felt so awkwards today to say merry christmas to the few people i said it to. it’s too warm in seoul. we’re not going to have a white christmas. if we get any precipitation, we’re going to get rain. anyway, it’s close to midnight here in korea. so merry christmas!